How do you know when is the time for a commitment when you start dating someone? We all like to date and let’s be honest we do have from where to choose. You can find a date very easily. If you have the nerve you can pick up even someone on the street when you go to the store if she or he is beautiful. Or you might be picked up, who knows. It depends on what kind of person you are and what are you looking for. If you are shy you can try online dating. Is well known that you can become more confident when you talk to someone that is not in front of you. Is easier, I think. I have a gay friend that said that he always get dates by using the gay online chat. I was surprised because he is a really catchy gay if you know what I mean. He is a little full of himself, but really love him. He inspires me, I swear. He is more than charming and he wouldn’t have problems in getting dates even he would go out to trash the garbage. But he prefers the online gay dating system because he thinks that is easier and you get to know better a person before you start dating. Either that you meet someone online or that one is introduced to you , after one date, two or more dates you will probably have an idea about things will go after that. After you date someone more than a week or two this probably is already called a relationship. And with a relationship also come a lot of responsibilities.
Is not like you marry that one, yet at least, but now is your half and it comes with some territory. Now a lot of the things that he will do will be done considering you and his problems will be yours problems too, as his joys and happy moments will. We all know that to have a relationship and to keep a relationship are two different things. Like all the new things, at the beginning everything is milk and honey how we say here. Everything that you do together is seems like something that no one ever saw, or feel and you are the happiest couple in the entire world. You have a commitment to each other, that will last for ever, because that happens in relationships. But after a while, several years to say, you will get used to each other, it will be harder and harder to come with something new. Maybe it won’t be so many free time for doing lots of thing. And even if when we thing that living with our half is the most wonderful thing possible we have to embrace the idea that this isn’t an easy way and it takes a little bit to get used to.
Like in any relationship it always exists that fear that you can be cheated. We all fear of that one moment. I’ve always wondered if in gay relationships is easier or harder to commit to someone or the problem of cheating is not so often. Even that in a gay couple the partners have the same gender, cheating is cheating. I would expect that two persons having the same gender understood each other better, maybe have same believes, think alike, but in fact there is no difference. The hart wants what it wants and it depends of each of us to make a decision. In general, when someone cheats and it gets caught it always has an explanation, a good one. The truth is that there are people that have reasons to cheat, there are people that can’t help it and there are people that don’t cheat at all. But this is a choice, and whatever you choose you need to stay and think about it a little bit before so you don’t regret it after.